And it's so much easier for the "other woman" to believe a man's lies: He's not in love with his wife, but staying for the sake of the kids, or because she's sick(physically or mentally), or because she'd ruin him financially or the millions of other lies that can fall from a man's lips so very easily. However, what if, like so many situations, she didn't know he was married until it was WAY too late to back out of? Like they'd been together a couple of years with him successfully hiding his marital status up to that point? Or if he told his lover that he was married, but separated or in the middle of a divorce, then strung them both along until she realized the truth of the situation? And while you and I might have left as soon as we realized something like this was going on, a woman in love wants to believe the best in her man. Now, if the woman went into the relationship KNOWING "her" man was married, then, the ho got what she deserved. Ugh.)Ĭruzntopless, while I don't condone cheating(been cheated on WAAAY too many times to make that leap), there ARE exceptions to every rule. Listen to it back-to-back with Faith Hill's Cry and I swear you'll be sobbing for a good half hour, at least!(They just happen to be on my playlist in that order. Simple, straightforward, and no explanation needed. I don't normally go for country music, and I detest songs about cheating, but this song just blows me away. Especially when she started crying I just completely lost it. She played the video for me On Demand, and I broke down in tears, it was that amazing. General CommentI heard about this song from my younger cousin, who said she had a "cute" song she wanted me to hear. then, finally getting the strength to bipass whatever love she does have for this man and tell him to "stay" with his wife. she's human, which is obvious through the raw emotions of the desperation of her wanting him to stay with her, then being angry of continually being told he's going to leave his wife. You don't have to agree with what she's doing to emphathize and it is especially unfair to just assume she's just a "homewrecker". i agree that there is a loneliness and desperation that attracted her to this situation, but, i do feel the protagonist does love the man, no matter how wrong it is. it doesn't matter whether you agree with her for being in the affair, you don't know how and why she got into it. it's dealing with the extreme emotions of BEING THE OTHER WOMAN. while the basis for the song is from the "other" woman to the man whom she is having the affair with, it's not a "cheating" song. i was completely moved with the whole idea of the song and the video. i happened to be flipping through channels one day a few years back and caught this song. General Commenti will be the first to admit that i'm not exactly the biggest contemporary country fan. And I think I know just what I have to do
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